How to talk about a crappy job

2008-10-13T13:38:00.000-07:00

Our question today asks

"hey Ty,

I collect rubbish/garbage for a living, yet im waiting to start University to study dentistry.
even though i have NO PROBLEM with my occupation, girls tend to recoil when they find out what i do.
ive tried mystery's way of telling girls about your ambitions but it tends to be long-winded and needs alot of already built confort, and i find in set people tend to ask early on, even if i give a smart arse answer, they tend to press for an answer!
ive also tried saying that im a student etc, but end up being found out that im lying when on the second meet. (massive DLV btw!)
I know for a fact people will write that i should just fuck girls off who have a problem or say its thier problem, but i think that ideological babble, that realistically people cant help thier own stereotypes of certain jobs and my inner game is strong enough to believe that when i reach that hook and i can build comfort for them to fall for me,
i just believe that im missing out on alot of sex!!! (or a meaningfull relationship??)lol
i need your feed back!!!!"

Tyler at confidencedynamics.com
says that:

why not be upfront about it. The best thing I ever did for my game was to be genuine and honest. You seem to want to hide it.. fuck that. If you want to take this advice to the max you could even use it as an opener.

You: hey guys would you ever date a trash collector if he was cute and funny?
them: sure I guess if I liked him.
You: cool I'm Tom

if you want to use it further on in conversation I like chino's, or

Ask her what she does first

Her: I'm a teacher
You: cool what is it that you like about teaching?
Her: I love that I'm giving back to society and making the world a better place through our children
You: (rewarding her for sharing) wow you are very generous, I like that about you.. See my job lots of people may look down on me for it, but I get that same feeling of giving back to society and helping make the world a better place when I do my job.
Her: what do you do?
You: I'm a trash collector, it's really intriguing to see all the crazy stuff people throw away. We are so wasteful you know? Do you ever waste stuff?
Her:(will probably totally ignore the part about being a trash collector because your passion for helping the world completely overshadows it)

What I'm trying to demonstrate here is that it's not what you do, but how you feel about what you do. If you have reasons that being a trash collector is a good thing then you should focus on those. Focus on all the good that's coming out of what you are doing. Without you guys my house would look really shitty and no chick would ever come back here. You are an asset in nearly every guy getting laid then. Think about how many guys trash you've taken? Think about how all those guys wouldn't have gotten laid if mold and flies were everywhere flying around. You could be the biggest cause of guys gettin laid in awile. So to you my friend... respect.

Confidence Dynamcs

How to talk about a crappy job